10.08.2008

珍惜~

她不爱我,我生不如死。。


没有她,我未来不知怎能活下去。。



你不喜欢我,我就跳楼给你看!



我爱你,多过我爱自己。。



为了你,我什么都肯做。。








很熟咧~


还有很多的,我自己没有背好,所以不是很清楚~


想知道更多啊。。?

别问我,我只可以介绍:
偶像剧,漫画,爱情小说。。大把啦!

哎呀~

身为年轻人,我们在生活中的朋友很多都是酱的。。

这无可否认。。

只是很正常的。。

就像我们读古文酱,不会是很正常的。。会就不叫人了啦。。

总之,是很正常的啦!

但。。

请问一下。。

一下罢了。。

那何必呢??


阿狗可能会跟我讲:“这表示我很爱她啊。。她应该接受我的吗,我对她酱专一。。”


WRONG! THIS IS NOT LOVE..
This is something called OBSESSION!


Here.. Look closer..

OBSESSION!!!


O-B-S-E-S-S-I-O-N



想知道有什么分别吗?


。。。


Tim has a PSP...

He adores it...

Besides playing with it, he would clean it daily, polish it every week...

He even puts it inside a chinese silk casing whenever he doesn't use it...

Whenever Tim's mum sees him taking good care of his PSP she says...

"Wow, Tim! You really love your PSP!"

Tim is happy...


Later, very later, Tim starts to play his PSP day and night...

He eats with it, sleeps with it, does homework with it..

During school, he keeps thinking of the exciting games he played last night..

When teacher is teaching, his mind wanders off, thinking of his beloved PSP...

Then, his results begin to deteriorate, but he still persists with his addiction with his PSP...

Whenever he reaches home, the first thing he'll do is turn on his PSP...

He played without eating, played without sleeping, played without studying...

When Tim's mum sees this, she says...

"My goodness, Tim! You're obsessed with that PSP! I'll have to keep it away..."


His beloved PSP is kept away...

Tim feels unhappy without his PSP...

He throws his tantrum everyday, feeling sad that he doesn't get his PSP...

He neither eats, nor sleeps, nor cares about himself anymore...

All he wants is his PSP...

He gave up his health, his studies, his future, himself, just for that PSP...




Get it?


If you don't, this could still help...

Love: a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

Obsession: an unhealthy and compulsive preoccupation with something or someone.




I couldn't live without you...

Is it true..?



Should you be so obsessed with someone, that you give up yourself, your health, your sanity, your very own future, your life?

Is everything in the world of fantasy true?









My rule:
LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.. BEFORE YOU TRY TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE..
先学会自爱, 才尝试去爱别人..


Some people may say, "You've never tried it before.. You've never got the feeling of loving someone that deeply, that you're willing to give up yourself loving him/her.. So why should I listen?"

...

That's because I'm not that stupid to try...

No, this is not selfishness...
This is loving myself first...



Everybody loves themselves first... Why shouldn't you?
If you don't love yourself, who would?


如果你不爱你自己,没有人会浪费时间来关心你,因为他们也忙着爱自己先。。



我日不吃,夜不睡,只是想着你..
你不爱我,我死给你看!

看得出我对你的爱了吗? 还不快点接受我??



傻人讲傻话,没有人会听,因为听不明..

不是不明白,是不了解(为什么那个人会酱)..

















如果你自己回答不到,没有人会帮你回答...



人生如一场梦...
每个人只有一场罢了...

发完了,醒了,就没完了...



自己珍惜~

3 comments:

Kim J said...

wow , im the first to leave comment for this topic .. love ..
如果你不爱你自己,没有人会浪费时间来关心你,因为他们也忙着爱自己先。。this is a cruel fact ... but hope everybody loves everybody .. lolz ..

Anonymous said...

:"还有很多的,我自己没有背好,所以不是很清楚~”
哈哈。。笔者认为没有必要去背。。
嗯,你是说得没错,先学会爱自己,再去爱别人。。。
但我比较认同锦杰的*EVERYBODY LOVE EVERYBODY*吧!
怎么说呢?只会爱自己,不会爱别人,人家从我这里的不到亲切感,又怎么会来爱我呢?
所以,爱自己的同时也爱别人应该比较恰当吧!
这也许是我个人观点,你不必介意~
继续你的blog!!^^

åh-†ёh² said...

很多人用这个图!